Ask for Agendas or Decline Soft Meetings

Agenda-free meetings are social hour.

Hey — a note on Ask for Agendas or Decline Soft Meetings, as if you were moving onto my street next month.

Ask purpose and decisions needed; offer async if unclear.

Get a workable version first. Week-one optimization is how people buy the wrong package twice.

Design for tired Tuesday-you, not motivational Monday-you.

Three things that help

• A default you can repeat without a planning meeting
• Screenshots for anything with money attached
• One friend who stops you overcomplicating

Ordinary weather teaches faster than another ranking post — rain, heat, overtime, quiet weeks.

If it only works when you're energetic, it doesn't work.

Try one real version. Adjust with scars, not theories.

— someone a few mistakes ahead